Love is Beautiful

Relationships are very important in life. 

Any amount of success would never mean anything if we don't have someone to share it with..

A relationship will last only if we see it as a place to Give and not a place to Take.

If we want a relationship to be nurtured, we have to tackle certain things much before the situation goes out of hand..

Small misunderstandings and clashes are pretty normal in any relationship..

One such relationship is Love...

Eliminate any problem in your love and married life before it threatens the relationship itself..

We feel resistance towards certain things that our partner said or did..when we don't handle the resistance, it grows into resentment and we start getting angry towards our partner.we begin to erect an emotional barrier..Then comes a point of rejection where we  have so much resentment built up that we look for ways to make our partner wrong, and try to verbally or non verbally attack them.. everything seems irritating or annoying..Finally when we get tired of coping with anger, we try to reduce the pain by creating emotional numbness..we avoid feeling any pain but we also avoid passion and excitement..At this point the lovers become roommates..No one ever knows that the couple is going through any problem because they never fight...the fact is there is no relationship left..

Hence Solve your problems..

Communicate..communicate...communicate..

Talk in terms of preferences..Instead of saying..I cant stand you when you do this or that..say I'd prefer you to do it this way!!!!

Focus on making your relationship with your partner better and better each day!!

Reinforce your feelings of connection and renew your feelings of intimacy and attraction..

Love your Partner...Become fully associated to the privilege of sharing your life with your partner..feel the pleasure intensely and continuously anchor it into your nervous system!