Trust

When you loose your partners trust, it creates a strong barrier where you cant live your life fully, happily with the person you love the most... and its not necessary that only a big lie like cheating on your partner or about certain things in life, will make your partner lose trust, even a small untrue statement which would be harmless will also make your partner lose trust because he will assume that if you can lie about small things, you can even lie about the more significant matters in your relationship.
Once you lose your partner’s trust, getting it back can be a difficult task. Your partner may forgive you but he will not be able to trust you completely. If you are in a situation where you have lost your partner's trust, You must also be frustrated because your partner may be continuously reminding you that he doesnt trust you anymore because of the lies you have told him and its not easy for him to forget that you have lied to him..
So What can you do about it?

I have been thinking a lot about it and I guess..
You should try to what your partner is going through and how difficult it is to believe in someone after they gave you a reason not to. Put yourself in their shoes and try to imagine how it would feel to be lied to, and how difficult it would be to trust the person who deceived you .

Accept the comments of your partner with patience and realize that there is no way around .Only time can heal your partners bitterness and anger. There are no instant fixes to this problem and there is no way restore trust and get it back overnight. Only time can make your partner forgive you and put behind the mistrust and give importance to your relationship..

Love is Beautiful

Relationships are very important in life. 

Any amount of success would never mean anything if we don't have someone to share it with..

A relationship will last only if we see it as a place to Give and not a place to Take.

If we want a relationship to be nurtured, we have to tackle certain things much before the situation goes out of hand..

Small misunderstandings and clashes are pretty normal in any relationship..

One such relationship is Love...

Eliminate any problem in your love and married life before it threatens the relationship itself..

We feel resistance towards certain things that our partner said or did..when we don't handle the resistance, it grows into resentment and we start getting angry towards our partner.we begin to erect an emotional barrier..Then comes a point of rejection where we  have so much resentment built up that we look for ways to make our partner wrong, and try to verbally or non verbally attack them.. everything seems irritating or annoying..Finally when we get tired of coping with anger, we try to reduce the pain by creating emotional numbness..we avoid feeling any pain but we also avoid passion and excitement..At this point the lovers become roommates..No one ever knows that the couple is going through any problem because they never fight...the fact is there is no relationship left..

Hence Solve your problems..

Communicate..communicate...communicate..

Talk in terms of preferences..Instead of saying..I cant stand you when you do this or that..say I'd prefer you to do it this way!!!!

Focus on making your relationship with your partner better and better each day!!

Reinforce your feelings of connection and renew your feelings of intimacy and attraction..

Love your Partner...Become fully associated to the privilege of sharing your life with your partner..feel the pleasure intensely and continuously anchor it into your nervous system!